__ Wednesday, May 24, 2006 ;
Recently, i've read one of my close friend's ex bf's blog entry...
I'm disgusted and truely, shld i say.. angry.
Yeah.
Disgusted not because he like another girl. But because of the way he phrase and write the whole entry. The beginning saying abt this ex gf.. how much he owe her, and he's willing to give him his everything but his love. Thereafter, saying he met this girl and their story turned out to be like a dream, a fantasy as the girl disappeared.
There's seriously nothing wrong with him liking another girl as his story with my friend has ended.. However, it is wrong when he still on and off gives her kind of hope.
In my opinion, this ex bf.. Well, he's kind of being selfish. He feels he owes my friend alot.. However he does not want to get back with her. From my guess, mainly its because of her personal outlook that he couldnt seem to give her his love. True, which guy doesnt go for looks, or shld i say, which human dont go for looks. What i dislike here is the feeling of on and off... He begin so afraid that he might lose her care and concern, her companionship that on and off he got to come sound her out and talk to her when he gets lonely.. when things(or girls) doesnt get in his way.
What guys shldnt do here is to continue acting like a couple with the ex when they have already broke off. There's nothing wrong with you saying you wanted to be friends or good friends. But be true to yourself, aint u being selfish? Dont tell me you're not afraid that XXX will stop caring for you and if she's together with another guy, wont you feel funny or try to win her back? In that case, aint u being unfair to her? Have you think of how you will feel if SHE's the one who keeps saying she like this guy or that guy?
Think of what is it you want with her. You all can be friends. If you want to be good friends, get past those ai(4) mei(4) guan(1) xi(4) first. Dont drag others and dont let urself regret when the day comes when she's together with another guy. If you're not going to give her your love, dont expect her to always care for you. She got her own life. Maybe you both doesnt realise it now, but as an outsider, maybe both of you are just dragging time, trying to deceive yourself.
There's nothing for me get involve and this is going to be the last time i'm going to comment on the two of you.
One last thing, this is my blog and i'm free to write whatever i wish. Just like what you said in your blog, its your life.. you are free to do what you want to do. Correct, but its also your choice to post it out to the public and people do have their own freedom to want to comment on what you've said. If you dont want people to comment, dont post it out.
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